Am I wrong?

Me & my bf have a 9 month old together. He’s working full time and I work whatever days he’s off (usually 2 days a week) so I’m pretty much a sahm. He works overnight and I’m with baby girl all day and night mainly because he feels that he can sleep all day until he goes to work & when I ask him to help with her he catches an attitude or says that I can get her myself because he’s trying to sleep. I feel like I have no help. He doesn’t help keep anything clean and he doesn’t pick up behind his self . He’s been so mean to me lately and didn’t even bother to get me anything for Mother’s Day. I just got a “happy Mother’s Day” and we got into an argument about that. I’m not happy. He doesn’t make any effort, I barely have alone time & im always in the house. I don’t mind being at home with my baby but I need a break and when I expressed this to him he got upset and said when she’s asleep I could be doing something that I want to do. I’m not trying to go out to a club or anything but I do want to hang out with my friends and go to the mall or something. We’re arguing so much because he doesn’t understand where I’m coming from and he gets defensive about everything.

Edit: MY PAYCHECKS FOR ONLY WORKING 4 days biweekly is $1150. He doesn’t pay anything by HIS SELF ! Don’t come for me saying I’m whining when I’m not getting treated right!! If I want help raising our daughter then that’s his responsibility too I am NOT his mother!! I’m not about to be catering to nobody’s needs just because on paper he works more than me.