Starting to feel unloved

So me and my husband have been married now for 3 years with 2 beautiful children 5 and 1 year but for hte last year since having ny daughter we dont have a sexual relationship anymore in the last year its probably been about 10 times maybe that is all i try to start it all the time by asking for massage or can we just cuddle tonight and he either says no im to tired or hell play xbox and i get angry with him because its like you say your tired but youll watch tv/playxbox for a couple of hours but wont have snuggle time with me and im just starting to feel unwanted and unloved ive tried talking to him and he says that he still loves me and still finds me attractive but he just tired and doesnt feel up to it! There is a 13 year age gap im 30 but i dont feel like this should mean anything 😔 no reason as such for this post but i just needed to rant is it to much to be wanted and feel loved.