My husband complains about our sex life but won’t help me fix it

My Husband complains about our intimacy but won’t help fix it , we’re both 25 male and female. Together 6 years.

I don’t know what to do, my husband has had a lot of complaints recently about our sex life . I’ve always had issues with certain positions that would cause immense pain sometimes even leading to bleeding and vomiting. It became so bad I’ve been to the doctor a few times for it but they’ve all said it’s normal and they can’t find a problem.

He however really enjoys the positions that cause the most pain like spread eagle or doggy. I’ve been honest with him that I don’t like these as they cause me pain. But he continues to complain about me not doing them enough.

Every now and then I’ll suck it up and deal with the pain but I guess not as much as he’d like. Sometimes I’ll try to get into a position he likes but he tells me no, then later complains how I never want to do certain positions. I’ve suggested a counselor to help or new toys/bedroom games, but he just seems uninterested and the convo drops.

We also have a one year old and that has made the strain worse because my body has changed after pregnancy.

Everything else in our relationship is fine it’s just this major part that we can’t seem to get through.

I guess I just need some advice on what the heck to do because I’m at the point where I don’t even want to be intimate with him, I just don’t feel good enough anymore.

TLDR

My hubs is complaining I don’t do specific positions but they physically hurt me. He doesn’t want to find a solution and I don’t know how to fix this.