Hiii! I need ur advice!!

In a couple months I will be FINALLY be moving in with my boyfriend of 2 years. (We’re 24 years old)

& I do think he is the one for me 🥹

This will be our first time living together, I already have a job lined up to where he is and he just started working with a company for the last 2 months. The only thing is, he is so busy with work… like every second of the day.

I’m not used to this new work schedule.

He’s working in operations. He constantly texts me through out the day and asks how I’m doing. I know how hard he’s working and I’m excited to move in with him but tbh it’s been hard but you’re kind of put in the back burner.

He is having a hard time dividing him home/work life and he told me he is aware of it without me even mentioning it.

But even when I went to visit him last, he was so busy (which is okay I understand!) but there needs to be a time where he switches off. when we finally found time on our last night to go out to dinner, he was on his phone. It’s just not a good feeling on my end and I’m trying not to be selfish bc he is working so hard.

It’s a new job and I’m sure things will settle in the next couple of months. I feel like i want to send him a text just to say reassurance isn’t a bad thing every once in a while bc I need it from him (especially being long distance)

I also asked if we could make it a thing to just call eachother and say goodnight if we go to bed around the same time. He loved the idea but hasn’t done it (I think he forgot) and texts me instead.

We have a SUPER healthy relationship, I know for a fact there’s no other girls or any of that. He’s just having a hard time managing his work life and I need your help with what I should say 😂