Help? Insight?

** I APOLOGIZE IF THIS IS THE WRONG GROUP **

Ok so I am planning my daughters 1st birthday party. My husband is not doing a single thing, for it. He’s not planning it, he’s not buying any decor or anything of the sort. I am.

When going over the invite list I mentioned that I’d like for my best friend to come.

He said “if she goes I’m not gonna go, I’ll do my own party” excuse me?

I understand he’s got beef with them but my best friend is our daughters God Mother. She deserves to go. (They all got along great til about 6 months ago - that’s another story for another time).

I still really want her to go. I want her there. But I don’t want my husband to throw his little hissy fit about her coming so he’s not. It’s not right in my opinion, it is about our daughter, not his beef with anyone or whatever.

I hate how his father disrespects and treats me but I was civil enough to invite him, because, as I said, this isn’t about anyone or anyones beef with anyone —- this day is all about our daughter. And I will not have it ruined!

I hope his father doesn’t show up. I have my doubts which I’m glad. I know how it sounds but I could manage to tolerate him for the party, but I don’t really want him there. My father hates how my FIL treats me.

But please help me, y’all. What do I do?????? 😣