Are you Polyamorous? Would you be?

Just asking if anyone else is because I’ve never opened up about the fact that I am. I have a wife and a husband.

It’s not something that we ever discuss in our family because they just don’t understand. Usually when I post on here I will only say spouse/ partner because I don’t want to get into the fact that I do have a wife and I do have a husband because everyone gets confused.

I was married to my husband first but things got rocky after a threesome we had, we ended up getting a divorce. I then met my now wife, we got married pretty quick and a couple months later I realized I still had feelings for my ex husband. At the beginning my wife let me know that she had been in a poly relationship before and she loved it and would be open to doing it again if the opportunity ever arose in our future.

I told her about my feelings and she said she would feel okay if I tried starting things back up with him. I told him about the situation and he was a little hesitant at first, he needed time to think about it. About a month or two later he decided he could give it a try and we went on a few dates before they got acquainted with each other.

We now all live together. I am legally married to my wife. I can’t legally marry my husband but we did have a wedding and we consider ourselves husband and wife. My wife and husband aren’t married or dating each other but if it happens organically we would all be totally fine with it.