Question on sleeping time

Weird question. I have to be to work at 6am most every day. I get up at 4:30am, drink coffee, put makeup on, feed dog and cats and let chickens out and need to be gone by 5:25am, no later. If this were you, what time would you be getting up? My bf and I seriously argue over this lol. I complain I gotta get up so early and don’t like doing anything later than 8pm ish. (I do work 6-6pm so most the time I never do anything after work, I Come home, eat supper quick, help out with the kids, clean up, shower and then it’s bedtime) an example would be tonight. He wanted to go out and have a fire and drinks after I got home and I said no. I get home at 6:30pm, by the time I eat, pack lunch and do whatever it’s 7:30-8pm and I am shot!