What would u do?? Please help me

Question

me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years and then we broke up to figure stuff out and i got horny and craved the attention i used to get from him and i sent nudes to someone in a completely different country who neither of us knows. i felt guilty doing it and i really really regret it. anyways me and my boyfriend ended up getting back together like a month later (we were broken up for about 3 months) it’s been 4 months since then and a couple days ago he asked me if i sent nudes to anyone or did anything with anyone when we broke up, i lied and told him i didn’t. he told me “good i didn’t do anything either!” i was scared to tell him the truth because he’d be hurt and our relationship might end. im feeling really guilty about it but i love him so much and if i tell him i lied and that i did send nudes our relationship might end. what would you do if you were in my position??

Answer

I sometimes think I’m a really shitty person reading some of y’all posts 🤣 cause girl I can lie like a mother fu*ker to cover my ass with no problems 😭

Answer

I would’ve just told him it’s none of his business when he asked. The only thing that would be his business would be if you had sex with someone else and got an STD (and still had it), or had sex and hadn’t gotten tested yet. What you did when you two weren’t together is none of his business. I’d drop it. If he brings it up again, I’d tell him it’s none of his business

Answer

Honesty is the best policy js. Eventually everything comes around. But if u were broken up it shouldn't be an issue. So I wouldn't worry too much about telling him considering y'all weren't together.

Answer

Girl! I know for a fact if you told him it would be over PERIOD! But y’all wasn’t together so he really shouldn’t even worry about it anyways so I mean if you want to tell him go right ahead he might be cool with it or not but you can’t never tell if he did anything to!!!!! But goodluck

Answer

Don’t be honest he was probably being a dirty pig on that little break!!! Who gives a shit y’all broke up.

Answer

You weren’t even together and the guys in another country I wouldn’t say anything .

Answer

You were broken up. You did nothing wrong. 
If I were ever in that position I would want to be told the truth.

Answer

Honestly I don't think if you told him you sent nudes to someone else when you weren't together should be enough for a break-up. It's not a big thing, this person isn't even in the same country. I wouldn't touch on this subject ever again. But if it really bothers you that you lied, you should tell him that you're sorry and for the sake of trust you decided to tell him. But again. You didn't tell him when he asked, so I wouldn't change the story later. Not worth it.

Answer

I would be honest with him and tell him that person meant nothing to you. He may or may not end things, but at least you were honest with each other. You can't build a stronger relationship with lies. 
My bf and I share everything, no matter how ugly or embarrassing it is. It builds trust

Answer

We all feel guilty about certain things we do when we aren’t with the person we love but we all have it in us to want a mans attention some how just to get that rush of excitement and to feel wanted but honestly keeping it from him could do more damage than telling him bec he may be hurt or mad but if u did it do you really believe he didn’t flirt or do anything during that whole time ?! Just tell him about it and tell him I were just scared to come out and say it but now u are and just tell him how u feel

What would u do?? Please help me

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products