I know nobody will lol see this but...

So I'm 19 and I'm realizing this is is the furthest any women in my family has gone without either getting married or getting pregnant. Idk i feel like a free woman honestly. 19 was the latest one of my cousins got pregnant but nobody has really gone past that. And i know it's probably normal for literally anyone but i am first generation living in America (from mexican family) and people are usually married or preggo by this time.

I dealt with toxic relationships during my teenage years and my mindset right now is in a place where i am not interested in being with a man who doesn't take me seriously or treat me right. I grew up seeing the man in my family abuse and treat the women like shit and I'm just not interested in putting up with that. And it took a lot of personal experience with abuse and manipulation from my own experience to actually see that. And it sucks i had to experience that from a young age but I'm glad i got to learn.

And it's honestly crazy cause a lot of men i dated would try to trap me in a relationship by trying to get me pregnant. And i know this cause they've literally told me to my face. But i feel like God has looked out for me cause he knows they weren't the right ones. And I'm starting to realize that now.

It just an observation i wanted to share. I just thought it was crazy.