Husband is depressed - I am feeling the wrath

Husband is depressed. He admits it, I noticed it well before he came out saying he was.

I asked him if he would like to start medication, he said no.

I suggested therapy/counseling he said a big hell no to that one.

Idk what to do anymore?

He quit his job and it’s been about 2 weeks and he hasn’t found another yet. He applied to one job which is 2pm-10pm that I BEGGED him to not apply for cause I would never see him. He hasn’t heard back as it’s been only a few days.

All bills are now on me-till he finds employment. But get this.. apparently I’m also still responsible for cleaning and cooking.

Everyday I come home at 5pm and this man is just sleeping. Nothing has been done.

Today for instance, I came home and his first reaction was “we need to go grocery shopping we don’t have much food-also, can you let the dog out she hasn’t gone to the bathroom literally all day cause I’ve been sleeping.”

I feel for him. I see he is depressed. But he does nothing about it. And that’s what is bothering me the most ! Maybe if he was actively doing something I’d be more understanding.

I’m really annoyed coming home every day to no dinner and me having to clean up and cook. It’s all on me. I’ve just recently gotten off my Xanax I was prescribed for anxiety but his behavior is causing me to really wanna relapse again.

What do I do? Has anyone dealt with this?