Should I go back to him or stick with her?

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My ex bf was treating me like garbage so I left him after dealing with the abuse for almost 2 years. We were friends before we dated and as friends, we were mad close, he changed severely as a romantic partner. Towards the end of our relationship I met this woman, who treats me so opposite and sweet. Makes me smile and takes care of me right. But now he is coming back up. Should I stay with her or should I go back to him and give him a second chance..

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You need therapy, not a relationship. You're contemplating going back to an abuser? That means you have a cycle you need to break. Get help.

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I agree with those that said to be with neither of them. He’s a piece of shit obviously and if you’re already so willing to leave her then you clearly don’t love her. You can pursue your “options” while single. It seems like you are with the woman just for your convenience which is wrong.

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Honestly, I don't think you should be with either of them.. Sounds like he was abusive so he's a no go and if you're actually contemplating leaving her for him you shouldn't be with her either.

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Would you want your daughter or child to go back to a abusive relationship? If no then no

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Reading your replies on these comments. You really should learn to love your self and find your self before dating anyone. You don't need love you want love. You don't deserve to be treated lile you have been with your ex. Take sometime out and be on your own

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Get some help and learn how to love yourself befy getting into another relationship PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!
Otherwise the abuse won't stop.

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You should leave him alone and either be by yourself or be either her

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If you’re happy in your new relationship & you’re being treated correctly; why even consider going back to your abuser?

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Why on earth would you go back to someone who abused you? I really think you should get some therapy because he still has a hold over you.

Should I go back to him or stick with her?

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