My baby is 10 days old and she sleeps for 4 or 5 hour stretches during the day. We wake her to feed after 3 hours, per her pediatrician, but otherwise she's napping. She usually is still napping from 6-10 pm, when I would normally think we would have bedtime. We swaddle for night-time sleep, feed, and put her in her bassinet. For naps, we usually have her unswaddled in the snuggle me because we're able to watch her closely.

My question is, I'm obviously not able to sleep when she's in the swaddle me because it's not safe, so I'm usually not getting her to bed until around 11 because of her nap time. Then I'm not sleeping until midnight, and shes usually up by 1 to eat again, if shr ever even goes down. I'm afraid if I wake her in the middle of her nap it's going to cause her to be fussy because I tried it one time and it was a rough night.

What would you do in this scenario? Swaddle and put her down for bed at 6 so she's sleeping safely and I can go to bed earlier? Or wake her from her nap around 8 to get ready for bed? I'm probably overthinking this but I'm just trying to figure out how to get more than 3 hours of sleep at night