My rule with bachelorette parties

Idk why I’m asking but does anyone else just not like bachelorette parties or see a need for them? I only went to one so far and it was far two long. 2 nights and three days. There was a lot of drama and it was just annoying being away when I really wanted to be doing a million other stuff.

I think the thing for me is the money. I’m a saver and I just don’t think spending a large amount of money just because someone is getting married is a reason to spend. And now the parties are in other states and I even heard other countries as well. That’s just waaay to big of an ask lmao, I don’t care how close I am with you.

Another thing for me is the drinking. Like I’m not a big drinker at all so why am I about to hold womens hair back because they drank way to much and take care of them all weekend?

I went to one and it was not fun at all. There’s always some drama going on, especially when alcohol is involved. So my new rule now is if it’s local. I do one night and then go home. I don’t sleep over I’ll buy the bride a drink, dance if there’s dancing and then I dip lmao.

I’m engaged now and I’m not even having one. I think I want to do a dinner but that’s it. Then I want to go home that night and be left alone. I’m not going to ask people of much and to travel and purchase plane tickets for me?? That’s weird. Idk this makes me sound like a bitch but they are getting so out of hand.

I’m happy I don’t have a friends coming up and I’m even more happy I’m not in a wedding as a bridesmaid cause that shit looks miserable.