is it wrong to give up my second child for adoption?

Question

i have 1 child now and i’m pregnant by my bf rn but he’s truly been treating me like shit this pregnancy and i don’t want to be in this relationship anymore i can’t do the parenting thing alone again especially of 2 children. 
i don’t want my second to grow up and think oh i wasn’t good enough but that one was or what it down the line i have a 3rd. is it wrong?

Accepted Answer

If you aren’t in a place that you feel you can raise this child it’s ok to make whatever choice you want for the situation. 
Do what is best for you 🖤

Answer

It's not wrong, but it's also not possible unless the bf agrees to it and is willing to sign away his parental rights.

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I mean I don’t think it’s wrong but I think it’s a good possibility they will think that way any maybe try to find you. Speaking from experience as a kid not raised by their parents. My husband def has some feelings as well as he was the only one adopted out of his bio moms 4. He doesn’t say much but I can tell it hurts his feelings a lot.

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It's not wrong to not be in the right place to have another kid. Honestly, I don't like the whole adoption thing because we have enough kids in the world who need families. If you're not too far along, maybe consider abortion? Either way, do what you have to, don't have a child just because you got pregnant.

is it wrong to give up my second child for adoption?

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