Sex addiction or high sex drive??

I’m 30 yr old female married with 4 kids and I’ve only been intimate with only 2 men in my life. My baby daddy but we broke up due to his doggish ways and then my husband. So here is the problem. Sex. I have a sex toy. I work a full time job and so does my husband but I still find time for sex. When we have sex sex it’s good and it’s never a problem. But it’s when he not here. That’s our issue. He feels like I should wait and not use my toy until he comes home and let him satisfy me. But I can’t. So basically he telling me that it’s a problem. But I’m like how when we use it during sex sometimes depending on if we feeling kinky or whatever but my husband satisfies me. So we talked and he was like why can’t I wait and I told him the truth. I literally get excited and him sexting or sending me whatever doesn’t help. I’m sorry but I’m weak for him lol so it’s kinda his fault too. But he still wants me to wait. Even if he don’t sent me nun. And I get to thinking about us.. I get turned on. So is it high drive or what? How do we get past this issue? Is he right? Comments?