So me and husband have been together 11 years going 3 married he found out i was caught by my parents and school i have sex with my ex in the school parking lot...should he be mad this happens 13 years ago before him??

I mean i do understand he can be upset idk what to do we're both traditional so i look super bad.

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I mean i do understand he can be upset idk what to do we're both traditional so i look super bad.

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Whether it happened 13 years or 13 days before, it happened BEFORE and is therefore none of his business. No, he does not have a right to be upset over something that happened so long ago

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I mean….  if he found out you murdered someone before you met him, I’d understand him feeling some type of way about that, but getting caught hooking up with a boyfriend when you were young???  That’s kinda weird.  Seems like a real reach there.

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None of his business. He hasn’t any right to judge you or be upset with you. We have whole lives before we meet our significant other- and some people never do- and they can’t hold a grudge about something that happened during that time. It’s just not right.

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I mean if you lied about it or something I can understand but it happened way before you were together so he needs to see that

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umm.. anything that happened before the relationship is not his business to judge and irrelevant. how would he feel if you treated him bad and blamed him for things that happened before you both met

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What the fuck. 13 years and he’s mad? Boo hoo. Like he doesn’t have a past

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Unless you lied to him and told him you were a virgin he has nothing to be upset about.

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I accidentally hit yes, I meant no. It’s none of his business. Maybe he’s feeling jealous? Even so it’s still weird. Hopefully he’ll realize he’s being ridiculous and get over it soon

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I would laugh my ass off. It probably sucked for you when it happened, but omg😂 that’s why you don’t do that in a school parking lot lol. 
At my school a girl in my class was caught giving head behind the bus garage, by one of the maintenance guys. I’m guessing it’s way more common than one would think.

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ACCIDENTALLY HIT YES MEANT NO
If you went and murdered folk then sure that kinda thing in your past is important but it was 2 years before your relationship? 
You might be super traditional but views can change at one point you obviously thought that was OK now you don't its personal growth you aren't that person anymore

So me and husband have been together 11 years going 3 married he found out i was caught by my parents and school i have sex with my ex in the school parking lot...should he be mad this happens 13 years ago before him??

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