A similar post..

I posted two months ago about my in laws being mad at me for delivering my daughter and not telling them the exact hour. My son excitedly shared with them at the family Father’s Day picnic a few hours later, all for them to be so selfish and rude. I balled my eyes out alone in the hospital, zero congrats or help or nothing. Fast forward, majority of his family still haven’t met my daughter. They haven’t tried to invite my son anywhere with their kids this summer (usually they all play together everyday). Never offered help or to come see her. Never apologized for being mad at me for zero reason when I just had a baby we struggled five years to conceive.

Anywayy it’s my husbands parents 50th anniversary party this weekend. They have been a part of my daughters life but pretty much no one else. They expect me to come with the kids this weekend but I don’t think I can. The toxicity of the rest of the family has ruined me. I don’t understand why I need to invite people to come see my kids, if they wanted to they would have. I don’t feel it’s fair to meet the baby at a big party.

If I don’t go I know it’ll be even more drama on their part. I’m glad I’ve stuck up for myself and not being treated like garbage but I’m also sick of holding onto the negative baggage. I don’t know if I should just suck it up, with a fake smile and go to the party or stay far away.

I guess I’m just venting. Ugh