Abortion

Hi girls 🥰

Just wanted to share my story, I found out I was pregnant on 18 July — I kind of knew I was pregnant as my boyfriend and I had sex on my highest chance of getting pregnant and I forgot to take PLAN B the next morning. I sneaked a pregnancy test without him knowing and it was positive. I decided to tell him and we had a conversation about it and I decided to not keep it as I’m still studying. He accepted my decision and paid for the procedure. It was only $110 as I’m in South Africa. I was only 4 weeks the day I went to the clinic and the doctor couldn’t continue with the procedure as the gestational sac was empty so I had to wait a week.

I was so depressed as I didn’t want the baby and didn’t want to disappoint my parents, so I went on Google and found a back door doctor, PLS DONT NO MATTER WHAT. I paid $50 for fake rubbish and it only made me get diarrhoea.

I couldn’t wait any longer and called the clinic 2 days after to ask if I can come the Wednesday as I had something bad. Luckily when I got there the doctor was so kind to me and told me it was ok and I gave her the fake pills and she said it didn’t affect anything ( I didn’t take all of them so I still had some left)

She did an internal scan and saw the sac, it was so tiny. I got contraceptives too, the 3 months depo shot (I regret it ngl, I was so emotional for the past weeks and I’m just eating every second so I don’t think I’ll continue in October)

Took the first pill that’s meant to stop the pregnancy in front of her and had to take the remaining 4 the next morning. I didn’t go to work the next day as I thought about the pain I was going to experience. I took 4 pills around 9:30, I ate first too. I kept the pills under my tongue for 30 minutes. Then swallowed whatever dissolved. I was a bit sad as nothing was happening but then I stood up around 1pm to check my pad and there was bleeding 🥹🥹🥹 I was so happy ngl lmao. I wasn’t bleeding much to be honest and was worried. I didn’t pass a big sac at all so I was worried. I think because I was only 4 weeks+3 days. The first week, wasn’t much blood. The second week, I was BLEEDING. I could literally feel it dripping out of me and clotting like crazy. I bled for 16 days. I haven’t had sex yet. Today is my 3rd day without bleeding. I’ll update when I get my period :)

Please feel free to ask anything. I was as paranoid too. Kept searching on Google.