Okay I’m due any day with my second baby and I live with my in laws and I already have a 1 year old. Anyways my brother in law just had a baby and he lives with his in laws and when we visited I felt a little uncomfortable because his gfs parents were kind of hovering and watching us hold the baby and I just felt like I couldn’t genuinely visit, we were there no more than 20 minutes. Anyways, I was talking to my bf and I asked if it would be rude to ask his parents (my in laws) to allow visitors their privacy with us and he said it’s rude because it’s their home. I do agree but I also do know his mom likes to hover, not really his dad but if his dad knows there’s visitors he might want to come and socialize and I don’t want people staying longer than I’d like them to because they think it’s a hangout with his parents and us. I also wouldn’t want my visitors to feel how I did at my brother in laws house because of his in laws. I personally would like to ask that our visitors do get that privacy with just my partner and I plus our 2 babies. What do you guys think?

EDIT: Yes we do pay $800 a month to live there as well as buy our own groceries and I cook dinner Monday- Friday which I feed my partner, another one of his brothers, and his dad every night. His mom works away from the home sometimes but even when she’s here I still make dinner. I just feel bad asking them to maybe be in their room or something while we have visitors there for our new baby because it is their home at the end of the day.