why do men

just a little rant because i’ve had a long week and am just over it🤦🏼‍♀️ pretty much i started a new job with new hours (overnights) so it’s been a little of an adjustment for me. i had asked my husband to please do some laundry for me because he had off that day and i needed work clothes and if he could fold the load i already did(all his clothes with a couple pieces of my stuff) and he said he would. i came home went to bed, when i woke up for work the next day, the laundry was still sitting in the washer, he had over filled it so much that the clothes didn’t even smell clean, and he also washed mine, his, and his sisters clothes (she’s staying with us) all together. also the clothes of mine he folded were all scattered through random drawers because he couldn’t even take one second to check and put my shirts with my shirts or my pants with my pants because he “didn’t know what drawers were which” as if he couldn’t just LOOK. idek why this stuff bothers me so much it just does, it’s like why can i do his laundry and fold his clothes and keep his stuff organized but i can’t even rely on him to get the simplest task done correctly. and it’s not even just the laundry it’s everything i ask him to do. he throws his clothes on the ground NEXT to the laundry hamper, he can’t put the toilet paper on the holder when the roll runs out, he can’t put his shoes in the closet but gets mad when the puppy chews them, it’s just like all the little things have been building up and really bothering me lately and i’m just so overwhelmed and i’m trying really hard not to say anything to him because i don’t want to be mean.