So my friend is pregnant with her first and her shower is coming up this month! I had been waiting for the invite but instead she told me that she’s not inviting anyone around me because she doesn’t want us to have to drive that far, I told her that I am more than willing I REALLY would love to drive and be there for her big day, we’ve had this talk about 3 times now and she either leaves me on read or just says “it’s okay” and then I found out her sister who lives next to me gets an invite and is going! I’m close with her sister too.