Boyfriend isn’t putting in effort

I’ve been seeing this guy. We will call him Trent for 4 months now. He works 2nd I work 1st. On the weekends he has off he goes riding on his motorcycle. We haven’t been on a date. He comes over we watch movies or tv we have sex sleep for a couple hours till I go to work and then I don’t see him for a couple days till the same thing happens again. He tells me that he’s trying to learn how to be in a relationship again. I can’t ask how his day was. We’ve been talking about moving in and then he doesn’t remember the conversations. He doesn’t remember anything Important going on with me. I remember almost everything. I ask him if he needs anything when he’s stressed and I just feel like I’m doing all the work. Also, he has gotten mad about how many people I’ve been with BEFORE him and the fact I dated black guys before (he’s white). Am I crazy and just seeing things or is this a stringing me along situation.

Also he is 26 I am 25.