So it’s really okay ?

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My mother in law she’s 400 pounds something and haven’t take bath more than 30yrs it’s really okay?🙄🙄 smell so bad to me I don’t her holding my baby but she mad if I say no 😏 she kiss all over my daughter face act like mother of my child I really hate tho

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I literally read this post in the voice of Larissa from 90 day fiancée LMAO…. Anyways… I’d you don’t want her holding your child, then don’t allow her 🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s your child. How do you know she hasn’t showered in “30 years?”

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absolutely NOT! who cares if she gets mad your childs health is more important!! make it clear and firm until she has a wash she won't be holding baby.. it's your child your make the decision not her

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Many people sponge bathe. I work in Healthcare and many people are clean with sponge baths at the sink. So not having a shower or a bathe isn't a big deal to me
That being said a lot of people who are that overweight struggle to clean their folds or back or have a lot of bacteria buildup in their deep folds. 
I would maybe see if there is a way to help her clean. Either helping her hire someone or help her yourself.

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I think he doesn't see the problem like you do because it's his mother. Maybe she has been this way his whole life. He accepts her. But I do understand your upset. I would not let anyone hold and kiss my baby that I didn't want to. I think the best way for him to understand is to compare this feeling for you to something for him. Like my ex was crazy over hisXbox, I would compare it to lending his Xbox to a responsible adult and a group of 10 year Olds with no adult. They don't relate at all obviously. But my ex would have cared enough about his Xbox to understand the care I feel about my child. Just an idea to maybe help. Good luck!

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I wouldn’t even have anything to do with someone who refuses to bathe. That’s disgusting.

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Tell her If she doesn’t bathe, she can’t hold ur baby.

So it’s really okay ?

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