Wake up call

So my ex and I recently broke up (like last week) and honestly I’ve been taking hard obviously. And I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t apart of me holding out hoping we’d get back together. We didn’t end on bad terms I think he just stopped trying but it wasn’t explosive. Today I got my wake up call because he basically said he’s going to miss my 3 year old nephew more than are relationship😭😭