Feeling unappreciated ?
I have a question do most of you feel unappreciated sometimes?
I cook,clean, make sure my partner is well and I take care of the family and household and I’m also 9 months pregnant. He doesn’t lift a finger in the house. He never really says thank you. I’m not saying I want a thank you every single time but I don’t get any flowers or anything anymore. Barely a kiss or not even a hug. I feel like he just says I love you now because that’s just the norm now. Sometimes I want to feel appreciated. He barely acknowledges me. I feel like a maid most of the time instead of his partner. Sometimes I’ll ask him to do things like please clean out the car for me or please fix this. He would never do it and I’ll just end up doing everything myself.
I tried telling him how I felt tonight and all he did was call me spoiled, say I want things handed to me ( which is a lie I’ve always worked and I plan on going back after I have the baby. I also will be doing nursing school FT). I’m 37w and this is not how I planned my second pregnancy to be. I been trying to tell him for awhile how I felt and I told him “ listen I’ve been telling you this for awhile now and I’m starting to feel like this, I’ve been trying to talk to you for awhile and you never listen ”. He then says what you want me to do leave, if you wanna leave you can leave, dealing with you is ridiculous anyways, you’re just a stupid ass, I think I’ll be glad if you find someone else and if you are talking to someone else I wouldn’t care ( I’m not talking to no one ).
After he said this I’m not going to lie. I didn’t say anything back all I said was okay “ good talk “ and I just went into the next room to cry to myself. All I was asking from him was to basically appreciate me and love me like he use to. He doesn’t even look my way sometimes. Im not even sure how to feel.
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