I’ve seen and observed a lot of people go through a lot of cow turds in relationships, including myself. My mom, several friends, and about 3/8 of my relationships. You’d think I’d have recognized the flags I was given. You can’t do something, then tell another person they are the one doing it. That’s called projection. You can’t make another person responsible for your emotions. That’s manipulation. You can’t ignore a problem and think it’s going to go away or resolve on its own. You can’t expect the other person to do all the communication. I just feel so alone.