My 3 year old is terrible for me but an angel for daddy

So my 3 year old daughter has a very strong personality, she’s bossy, she’s sassy, she’s high maintenance but she’s a total brat (I say that in a cute way not mean way haha) to me but a complete angel for my husband. She’s definitely a daddies girl but won’t think rice before losing her shit if I just want to run to step away to the washroom or something. So she’s like clingy to me but super sweet and well behaved for her dad. Like what the heck lol. I’m the one who suffers from anxiety and over stimulation so this drives me anxiety thru the roof. My husband is the calm laid back one. Please tell me I’m not alone on this one.