Hey there! I usually wear fitted clothes like jeans or leggings. I carry a good amount of weight but it usually goes on my hips and thighs so my upper body is a lot smaller and I only have a bit of stomach so with the right jeans it looks flat. My hips are 50 inches circumference and my waist is 33 inches which is a big difference so I literally can't find jeans! Any suggestions? I'm interested in high or mid wasted and I'm interested in actual denim and not skinny jeans. Thanks!