So my boyfriend thinks because he works and I stay at home he can go out with his friends . I don’t mind it but not every weekend or every other weekend . We have a daughter together and right now we are struggling financially I don’t work I am currently a SAHM but I will soon do part time not many hours a week. He went out the other night and we are behind on rent and need to pay our car payment and he thought it was a good idea to go out. He tells me that he got paid from his clients (he does tattoos right now that he’s off of work) so I told him how when his clients was coming the next day it made no sense to me & he copied and pasted and sent me what his zelle message said but it doesn’t say when he received it so it could of been from weeks ago. So I was very upset with him. He usually goes out and it’s rare when he comes home at 2am sometimes he comes home at 3 -5am he tells me he’s not doing anything but with his friends . To me what kind of man that has a family does this? He thinks it’s ok because he’s not doing anything bad like cheating on me. There’s been worse times where he doesn’t come home till 10am the next day and still thinks it’s ok and when I get mad all he says is sorry no one is going to tell me what to do . I told him if I did that he would be pissed and he’s like well it hasn’t happened yet so why are you assuming I would be mad like why wouldn’t you if I’m coming home till the next day.