3rd trimester bleeding opinions or experiences

anony mouse

I've had 4 significant bleeds and gone to the ER every time. Before the 2nd to last one, I lost 2 big bloody chunks of mucus plug. It seems to be getting worse, bleeding more or more frequently. I was told the the first couple of times that I had a friable cervix. The 2nd to last time I was told that it didn't seem like I had a friable cervix but was offered no other explanation. I had been completely closed and had a long cervix up until the time before last. Then I was told that I was dilated to 1cm. I'm having braxton hicks quite frequently. I go for weekly nst and am usually having some them and have some when I'm at the ER and I have them at home. The past couple of times I wake up in the middle of the night to go pee and have a bunch of clots and blood go into the toilet. I just want to know what's going on. My mental health is starting to get to me. I've been on pelvic rest since 19 weeks and have been taking things tremendously easy. This is my 3rd and last baby, no complications with my first 2 at all. I just don't know what to do anymore. Any ideas? Suggestions?