Why is this even a thing?

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Okay so long story short, I’ve been married and divorced. I’ve had some awful relationships and that’s truly because of the men that I choose. Apparently toxicity and red flags are my thing. Anyways, I’ve noticed several people(closest to me) over the last couple of months have been trying to gently push me back to dating. I don’t want to date and I don’t want love from someone in a relationship. My life is perfect to me the way it is. I have my kids so I’m not alone. And friends and family. And yes all of these people know that I don’t need love or want it honestly. Yet they keep pushing and I am frustrated by that. I had to tell me best friend that she needed to respect my boundaries because she made me a profile on a dating app without my knowledge and then shows me the guys. I was not a happy camper. Sorry for the rant I’m just frustrated.