Disappointed in husband

Sv

Well the title says it. There are some things that have been going on that bother me pretty badly lately. Firstly, there are things my husband just refuses to budge on/talk about/see my side. Like #1. My ex husband seeing my oldest daughter. I know he hasn’t been around in 3 years or even asked about her. I know my now husband has raised her with me. But I’d like to let my 12yo daughter make the decision to see him or not. Not us. #2. My son is not thriving in public school. He’s failing everything but yet the school won’t tutor him or refer me to anywhere for help. I’m doing all I can to study with him and catch him up so I felt like trying homeschooling. My husband got mad anytime I brought it up saying absolutely no. I would be the one with him not my husband. His mother brags about sending them outside with the water hose after school until bedtime so I’m sorry but my job is to do what’s best for him not what’s convenient for me and apparently public school isn’t it! But he won’t talk about these things. He shuts them down. #3 my grandparents bought our house 10 years ago. But they went downhill in health and sometimes need rides to the store. My husband has been getting mad at me for taking them. He says it’s my dads problem not ours. But they have done so much for me. They are my grandparents! I don’t care to help them! I work with seniors in their homes I am a caregiver. I don’t know why he acts the way he does about things! Not to mention I just found out I am anemic, and have gestational diabetes. (31 weeks) I am very weak lately but I am still cooking, doing housework, taking the other kids to school in the mornings, while he sleeps because he quit his job this close to Christmas on Monday. Idk what to do. But I’m losing respect for him. And I’m losing it fast. I just wanted to vent. Thank you if you read this far and please don’t be rude to me. I just recovered from Flu A, must stand for Asswhooping because it almost took me out. I just wanted to vent and not be griped at. Thank you.