My husband told me to fuck off

My husband and I had a fight today because I was in a meeting downstairs and he had my three year old on the middle floor and knew I had the meeting and was being loud. I had to come upstairs and tell them to be quiet after texting him four different times then he texted me and said fuck off. Those words really hurt me and it just makes me feel like he doesn’t respect me. I communicated this to him and he apologized for saying fuck off and didn’t know I felt that way. I even mentioned to him that the other day when I was super sick because I had the flu I asked him to get me chicken noodle soup because I couldn’t even move and he straight up said “no way”. Like wtf - before he got his job he would not hesitate to help me if I was sick. And I would do the same for him. All he said was sorry and that he would try to change….I’ve heard that before but we will see…text message convo below.