My husband’s grandparents are very old and probably don’t have much time left, but they are not nice people. His grandmother called me a witch and a fornicator because I got pregnant before marriage. His grandfather said I shouldn’t be in this country because my parents are immigrants. I had his grandmother added as a friend on Facebook for a while and she kept posting extremely ugly, racist things. She commented I was going to turn into a pig because I got vaccinated for Covid. If I spoke my native language she told me “this is America, speak English or get out.” Even though I was born in America she says I am not really a citizen or American. She has said she thinks anyone who is not a white Christian will burn in hell. I have had her blocked for over a year because of how nasty she was to me online. When my first child was born she told me she prays he’s not a fa*got like me because I am bisexual. Just awful things. My husband wants to go visit them because they’re about to die and they’ve never met our kids who are 4 and 2. I do not want to, for very obvious reasons. Firstly it’s like a 6 hour drive and secondly they’re fucking so mean to me. Why should I put myself in that environment? He tells me they’re not going to be alive much longer and he just wants to make peace with them before they go. I told him if he wants to see them he will have to go by himself because I don’t want my children around those types of people. Am I wrong?