Sex conflicts

When me & my bf first started dating we talked about sex.

He said he was used to more x rated stuff than what we did and asked if I hadn’t been with lots of ppl.

It takes me a while to get comfortable with someone to do more x rated things. We’ve only been together 5 months.

I’ve tried to be more sexual by initiating sex and offering oral just because.

Our sex like just wasn’t what I wanted so I got lingerie and randomly sent him really sexy videos of me.

He only responded with a heart and when I asked why he’s so dry like “ I don’t like lingerie. Just bra and panties or something like that..”

I feel like I’m trying to step out of my comfort zone and do more to please him but it’s not working.