Back around thanksgiving my husband and I were at his parents and we got discussing have a “wedding party” (we ended up just eloping, and didn’t really tell anyone and I kinda liked the idea of having a get together)

Anyway somehow the topic of having children popped up as his sister had just gotten married a few weeks earlier, her and her husband were mentioning how they would really like to do some home improvements and travelling before they started trying, when we were asked about it I informed them that we had actively been trying for 2 years with no success. We kind of moved on from that topic and I went outside to sit at the fire, his sister came out and told me if I ever needed to talk to her I could and it was probably the deepest conversation we had ever had. Right before we went to leave his sister sat everyone down in the livingroom and announced that her and her husband were actively trying for a baby- I felt like I had a knife slice through my heart.

Flash forward to yesterday I was mentioning going to his parents for New Years and made a joke about how drunk his sister would be (she always goes a little too hard), and my husband informed me that when he went to help his dad out they let it slip that she was pregnant.

Now his sister is the type of person who has to tell you and gloat about everything and I really don’t want to deal with it on New Years Day. I would love to just not go but everyone was unable to go for Christmas due to the weather so New Years is our make up day.

Update; I went to the New Years celebration, and sure enough the whole time she was making a huge deal out of being pregnant (it is her first) but it was to the point where she would insert it into conversations that had nothing to do with her or her being pregnant in general. She didn’t say it to me specifically but at dinner she made a comment about how she doesn’t understand how it takes so long for some people to get pregnant because their wedding night was the first time they hadn’t used contraception and ended up pregnant. I was livid, I thanked his parents for having us gave his siblings their gifts and left I just couldn’t bear it anymore.