Im not knocking it just saying what I observe

But I see WAY too many moms stating how tired/unhappy/worn out they are especially when they have 2 pregnancies back to back that results in two children that are so close together in age. I don't have any advice for them so this is more for the moms who wants to have multiples in the future.

It's ok and best to wait before popping out another baby!

Your body needs to recover, you get to actually enjoy and bond with your current baby/toddler.. you will catch up on sleep.

Do not think kids need a close age gap. They don't. My daughter will turn 7 after her first sibling is born and she is so excited. And I am so thankful that when I don't feel well in my pregnancy I don't feel like I'm neglecting her because she is not as needy. I grew up with 5 siblings and the ones I liked best had large age gaps including the oldest who is 15 years older than me. Your kids will still be friends! Don't do it to yourself unless it's truly what you want. But I literally cringe when I hear about someone having a baby who can barely eat solids being pregnant again because I think of how horrible it is for your body. Give yourself time! Pregnancy is hard on your body but it doesn't help when you have another baby you're breastfeeding at the same time or that's keeping you up all night.

It all works out I promise! So if you're tired and exhausted don't think you have time push out a baby right away just so they can be close in age. It really doesn't matter.