What to do when you’re no longer attracted to your partner?

Ok I feel like a piece of shit….if a man was no longer interested in me physically and mentally, I’d feel bad…

I’m not sure if I outgrew my bf, if I’m just mentally exhausted or what? Been with my bf since I was 17… 25 now.

Besides physical attraction, I no longer find him fun. I catch myself avoiding him. We don’t share similar interests anymore

Sex is good though that’s why I’m so lost.

Little backstory; last year my bf was doing so bad financially. Crashed his car, poor saving habits…etc etc. all this rage he had was let out on me…..

We argued a lot more and he verbally abused me. Every argument led to him calling me a bitch, piece of shit, “wish you were dead”

He decided to go to counseling and this year has been good!

The problem is I can’t let go of those words he’d call me like “fat pig” and “you disgust me”

Idk if this is part of my loss of attraction towards him

When we went to counseling I was told he can’t control his anger…so I was patient waiting for him to change and he did so far.