Normal or not?

So to be fair, I am a very non-confrontational person.

So today my partner and I were in the store.

We seperated to be more quickly.

When I was putting something in our cart he bumped into me from behind, I hadn't seen him coming.

my response was "whoo" just like that, because it was a natural response as I lost my balance unexpectedly.

He sexualized it and made it sound more like an "ohw" do you know what I mean?

He literally said something like "Oh so when a stranger bumps into you, that is your response?"

And I come from a mindset considering people who bump into me do this by accident and I'm letting that slide.. just a short "whoo" should be enough I guess to notify them they bumped into you and then it's up to them to apologize. And a lot of people are rude these days so they wouldn't apologize or whatever, then "whoo" Isn't a bad response either because if you'd take it on, then they might become aggressive (like my partner would definitely do).

But essentially my partner found my response unacceptable. I should have been more confrontational. I should have been more rejecting or something, because someone was in my space. He felt like my response was somehow opening my space up to others and once again he implied that I was open to other men touching me.

Idk, I feel like he wants to control my responses or my personality, it felt really weird.

@Coco

I really meant his actions.

@Amanda

That's really what I thought it was.