I’m not sure where to turn to anymore

So I’ve been married to my husband almost 2 yrs you can say we’ve known each other since 7th grade anyways we’ve been living with his dad for awhile now I’m finally able to work again so I can help us get a place because let’s face it he can’t do it by himself well he’s been jumping from job to job to job I’ve talked to him about this and it goes in one ear and out the other then I finally get a very good paying job he quits his I’m like wth idk what to even do anymore