How many of you ask for sex, he turns you down every time just to take care of himself ??

I constantly try to initiate something, even if it’s just to take care of him and it’s constantly some bullshit excuse. We barely kiss and this has been an issue that we’ve talked about before. He says he’ll work on it but it’s becoming a problem. He turns me down but there’s porn EVERYWHERE. he’s watched on the tv out in the living room, on his phone, on the fricking Quest VR system he bought and on the damn bedroom tv even while I’m sleeping.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for him pleasing himself but between his only fans and all this porn.. I’m just done. I’ve actually just walked around in lingerie and told him no myself on sex a handful of times when he actually wanted it. Please tell me I’m not the only one that only has sex once a month?