Stupid Insecurity [EDIT]

It’s foolish, I know, but I’m questioning if the guy I’ve been seeing is actually attracted to me. We’ve been going out for about two months—pretty physical ever since day one. I’m a big gal and he’s an “average” kinda dude. A couple of weeks ago when we were hopping in the bed, he asked me to keep my shirt on because he thought it was hot. “Okay.” But it made me self conscious and basically I’d left it on for every other encounter ever since. Last night, I went ahead and stripped down all the way, and he wasn’t able to finish like he normally does — so I finished him off orally.

We had a pleasant rest of the night and all, but am I crazy or could there be something there?? I don’t want to be needy and ask the, “do you think I’m pretty?” thing, but this has gotten in my head. What should I do?

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So, he’s still texting every day. Still coming over when he can. We go out when I don’t have the kids. I finally did straight-out ask him if it bothers him that I’m fat. He told me no. He said, “I like you.” When I told him I’m trying to lose weight, he just responded, “you do you.”

So I’m just gonna have to go with what he’s saying at face value and hope he really means it. Thanks for your insight. ☺️