My husband and I are trying for our first and are very excited. However, his parents are pushy. When he was in his college years his parents would get high and drunk with him and his brother. They still drink and get high (without my husband - he quit years ago). I’ve seen his mother drunk and crying in a bar picking fights with people. His father’s wandering eye has made me very uncomfortable on more than one occasion. In addition, they tend to have unhealthy boundaries and love telling me what to do with my home/property and constantly giving unasked for advice. Am I unfair to plan on never allowing them to be alone with my child when we eventually have one?