My new BF and I are already having problems wit sex…

We’ve been officially dating since January but we waited to have sex till we were ready. We are not virgins but last night was our first time together and we are already having issues

I feel like he’s projecting his insecurities but idk…

He got mad already!

1. He complained that he couldn’t feel me. I asked if it’s me and he said he didn’t like the condoms he chose and it wasn’t me.

2. He said I didn’t moan. I did softly. It’s my first time so I’m kinda nervous of the sounds. He then said he doesn’t want me faking stuff. He said I better not be pretending stuff. I said I did moan but he said if I liked his performance it would have showed but it didn’t. Am I that bad??

3. I told him maybe it was me who wasn’t pleasing him right? Like idk what he expects me to do…yell? Scream??? He got mad and told me “here we go nevermind I gotta go for a drive and think through”

4. Neither of us finished. I told him that I didn’t finish because he stopped and he got more upset that I didn’t finish. But I was being honest since he asked for honesty.

5. I told him I love him regardless and that he made me feel comfortable and it went easily inside …I mean for me the fact it went inside meant I was easily aroused and comfortable. I though it’d be compliment. With my past ex it always hurt and I realized it’s cause I was scared of my ex. Well my bf took it wrong the fact I said it went easily inside and he said “yeah I was too small for you”

What if it was me that did this all wrong? Do you women yell during sex ? I tried watching porn to see what noise women make and I feel like I do moan