Bf Holds Grudges

Even when I apologize and acknowledge my wrongs and correct my actions my bf drags the situation. Now he is mad because I “ don’t listen “. Which I do but I also make decisions for myself so if I don’t agree I will do what’s best for me.

These are not life altering decisions either it’s as simple as him wanting me to put the trash in a certain area and sometimes I forget because I’ve been in a rotation of my own. Or going to the store by myself when he said he would go and didn’t want me to. Those things have turned into a 3 day argument. To me it’s like he wants to be in control of everything ..