Does this guy sound like he just wants sex? Red flags?

Back on the dating scene and I’m already over thinking (anxious attachment is so fun)

I went out with a dude on Friday, it was a nice date.

But some things really bothered me because I’m trying to date with intention not just to have fun (settling down / serious)

I didn’t really intend on kissing him on the first date but we ended up kissing , he kissed me first. he’s cute but then I was like why am I kissing on the first date. I don’t like kissing in first dates. For me it seems too rushed. He was very handsy too, again don’t appreciate it.

Then after the date was almost over he asked ”why don’t you come over to my house?” And I asked him what/who do you think I am?

I went home and he texted me asking if we can meet the day after for hiking or something else. The same night he even asked and was like we should see each other again tonight….

It’s making me thing he’s seeing me as a hookup and that’s it.

But he’s texting me everyday since then. I really can’t gauge what he wants, just sex , casual ?

I kind of want to be like “I’m not putting out unless I’m in a relationship and even then I want to get tested and use protection” just to see what he says. Because that’s the truth.

Don’t wanna be used for sex again, don’t wanna date around and feel used (casual sex isn’t for me) I feel like I know my worth.

Are these red flags? To me it is. When I read it back to myself it sounds like he was really looking to hook up after the date.