Toddler won’t sleep through the night in own room

My daughter is 2 1/2 and we moved her into her own room about a month and a half ago. Before we were in a big room that my parents had built but we finally wanted her to have her own room so we moved to the two rooms right next to each other. We didn’t let her sleep in our room so she wouldn’t get in the habit of sleeping there and could get used to sleeping in her own room. We were able to do it the only issue is she wakes constantly through the night looking for me. She doesn’t get out of bed but she’ll call for me and if I’m not in her room by the third call, she’ll cry. Usually it’s around 1am and I end up falling asleep in her bed. I feel this has put a strain on my relationship with my husband. He jokes around that I don’t sleep in bed with him anymore but I can tell it bothers him. He told me to let her cry but I feel awful doing so plus my parents will end up wanting to go in and comfort her (funny since they never did that with me as a child 💀🥲)

Any tips? I’d really like her to either self soothe but idk how to go about that.

@Katelyn where in my post did I say I expect her to have a sleep pattern? I was looking for tips on how my daughter could either self soothe or if there’s anything I can do to help her self soothe. You did not have to come at me with that attitude.

@Becky thank you for the reassurance that I’m doing the right thing for my daughter. Idk I felt like maybe I was coddling her and that probably has to do with the adults around me that tell me she should be sleeping through the night. I honestly love sleeping with her and even feel more comfortable in her bed now but I guess I thought I was doing something wrong by doing so 😅