Red flag or green flag?

I was in the hospital with my family for a few days for an emergency. When i came back home (to my boyfriends of 1 1/2 yrs, i recently moved into) i joked because i had to stop by to take a shower, and i joked saying good thing i didnt find any dirty condoms in the trash. And hes like youre stupid lol, then said “aw babe, are you really that traumatized?” (Referring to my past terrible relationships) and i nodded yes. Then he insisted on giving me the password and login to his security cameras, so i can help watch his house and feel safer and more secure.