Fusterated
I’m very frustrated with my husband… ( for reference he’s 26 and I’m 23 )
He has been extremely uncompassionate and just not caring or turning it into a “ learning lesson”..
one example was, I am currently working on my degree to become a teacher and I failed a hard test for one of my classes 4 times and thought I had to retake the test I was extremely defeated and felt so stupid and I was talking to him about it for comfort and he’s like “ I’m disappointed in you like I don’t know why that happened, like I didn’t fail any classes or test in college so it’s disappointing you did.” And we got into this whole fight about it and he just didn’t care and said that what done is done but I should’ve done better.
Than today he slept ALL DAY until about 4pm cause “ he hasn’t slept much for work” ( he sleeping 10-12hrs a day) and takes naps some days and that I wouldn’t understand because I don’t work ( I’m a STAHM with our 2yr old daughter) and I was like I don’t get breaks or I can’t sleep all day like that or else I get called lazy and or given back our daughter and he ignored me and stayed hiding in our room all day
Then again today my sweet dog had to be put down to sleep today cause he was dying and he only had 2-3days to live so my family decided to put him down and I told him and he’s like “ about time he was gone” ( my dogs never warmed up to him and the one who died today bit him cause he was chasing my little sister and the dog thought he was attacking her) I told him to knock it off and that not okay.. i stayed in the room crying for awhile and came out for a hug cause I needed a long hung and he just bro patted me and was like I need to go to the store.. fast forward a couple hrs I posted a memory post for him on Facebook and he goes “ NOT THE MEMORY POST FOR THE DOG” and starts laughing his ass off and I’m like stop. That’s not okay . And I told him that he shouldn’t have laughed like that and it was absolutely rude and disrespectful and he’s like well I’m not sad he’s dead, he wasn’t nice to me you just don’t understand where I’m coming from. And I’m like even if he wasn’t my dog I wouldn’t laugh at a death post about a animal, that’s just straight up rude. And he’s like well we just don’t see eye to eye on this then.
I’m just so over this and it’s happening more and more, and it’s to the point to where I just don’t know what to do and am starting to think maybe me and my daughter are better off with someone whose better
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