My SIL said this..

So I've been making my way to seperate from my partner anyways.. For the sake of the conversation let's call my partner Billy, That will be easier.

A couple of times now my SIL (partner's sister) has said things that make it seem like she absolutely does not trust a word that comes out of my partner's mouth.

As has his mother. Rightfully so, I've known him lying to them during almost every visit we've paid them. His mother called him out several times when he was openly disrespectful towards me.

A few years ago, she (my SIL) said "Billy always seems to remember things a little differently than everybody else does" (I have noticed that first hand, almost on daily basis now)

yesterday we were at a party and we were standing there looking at a guy who has a wife and a stepdaughter and 2 daughters.. It was said - IDK by who - that he's gonna have quite a life with 4 women under his roof. Since I'm living with 5 men.. I said jokingly "I win" and my SIL goes "Sweety, you have Billy, you always win"

Stupid.. but it's true.. I have less trouble with any of the kids and ALL of the kids together.. than I have with my partner alone.